He's just a friend...

I'm fighting my buzz right now so bear with me. I hung out with my a long time homeboy today (my mom's best friend's son) and his girl today. He and I go way back. And of course we grew up together and he taught me a thing or two hint(not that. keep your mind out the gutter).

When he was like 10 his fam moved... we'll say out west. they would come and visit two maybe three times a year and we would kick it. We had feelings but he was there I was here nothing could be done except phone calls, letters, and send each other gifts. Dam seems like only yesterday I would use part of my allowance to buy calling cards and stamps LMAO!! He graduated high school n not long after got with a blanquita. Nothing against them but, that was a slap in the face. N she's not a Pam Anderson Angelina Jolie Jennifer Aniston type either. *Having a moment*

*moment over* We talk weekly. It's clear that there is chemistry n something there but he's with her and I'm usually dealing with someone or want to be single. Any who, tonight the 3 of us are out drinking chilling having a good time. By the time he has 3 beers he's getting touchy feely. I let it slide w\e he's my home boy from way back. His girl goes to the bathroom (she usually never leaves us alone. she'll go to the bathroom when I go or she won't go lol) and starts reminding me of things from the past and turns up the play hitting. We head to the next establishment and while looking for seats in the bar he grabs my ass while blanquita is on about 8 feet ahead.

Although my homeboy is all kinds of delicious I'm faced with a moral dilemma. First he belongs to the blanquita now. I'm not into messing with other people's property. It goes against my moral fiber. I think if more women weren't willing to mess with men they knew were someone else, less men would cheat. Second, I kinda feel like he was mine first and I should reclaim what's mine. Third, I'm unnerved by his behavior. What does it say about him if he's willing to behave this way with his girlfriend around? I know he's a good guy and he hasn't cheated on her but still. I wouldn't be thrilled if my bf was flirting and groping a good friend he grew up with.

So this is me buzzed and rambling. Do you have any friends of the opposite sex from way back when? How do things work when you're in a relationship?